We don't have a name picked out yet.
It was so much easier with Cami because the name "Camille" is THE most perfect name for our little girl. We both knew right away.
This time it's different.
It's not like we disagree on names. We like the same ones. But that's the problem. We LIKE a few names but don't LOVE any.
Yet.
There are a few we really like but they are a bit too popular and I'm having a hard time with that. I don't want her to have to share her name with other kids. I know that sounds silly, but I just want her to always feel like she has a special and unique name. This is something she will live with for her entire life!
But you know, my brother's name is Josh, and growing up there were always at least 3 other Josh's in our circle of friends. In fact, I married one! So I guess it wasn't so bad for them.
I have an "M" name in mind which I like a LOT, but it's up there on the "most popular baby names" list. Josh has another "M" name that he really likes but it's even higher on the list.
We have a "K" name that we're actually leaning toward but haven't fallen in deep love with it enough to decide for sure.
Then you have to think about what it will be shortened to. Names are always shortened whether you want them to be or not. Like when my sister decided on the beautifully elegant name "Felicity" for her daughter, she was determined for no one to shorten it. And now my neice is definitely called "Fliss." My sis is cool with it now though. It's cute and fits her.
I don't want my daughter to have a common last name for her first name, which has been a recent trend in baby naming.
I don't want her to have a boy name or even a gender neutral name.
I don't want her name to be a common word you might see on signs or book titles.
I don't want her name to sound like something I made up because I was trying to be that different.
I don't want it to rhyme with something gross or weird.
I don't want it to be shortened to something with a different initial.
I want it to be elegant and feminine, cute but not cutesy, and fitting for a baby and also a grown woman.
See, this is why the name "Camille" is so perfect.
At least we have the middle name picked out. It's a special one dear to my heart especially and we're keeping it a surprise.
So she will just be called "little one" for the time being and have to wait on Mom and Dad to finalize this very important decision.